Benvenue

Benvenue

An early riser now, I’m up by 6
all summer, and my day off exercise
is Sunday, when I get my weekly fix
of puzzles in the back of Datebook. Eyes
on friendly letters, coffee freshly made,
I want my pleasure solo out of bed.
I used to buy the Sunday Saturday,
but now it’s not available ahead.

So lately, if I want to work the words
on Sunday then I have to walk a bit.
At 7ish I join the early birds,
and stroll in silence past the gardens lit
by rising sunbeams: ancillary boon –
my neighborhood won’t be this fine at noon.

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No Smoking

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I didn’t smoke tobacco to look cool,
exactly. I mean, I was not concerned
with peer regards. I made it out of school
and off to college; then my head got turned
by admiration. There I met a guy
who argued like an angel, angled whim
and poetry, smoked Winstons, made me cry
and laugh and long to build a bond with him.

In time we chose to go our separate ways,
but I remained a fan of nicotine.
And though I gave the habit up (the craze
of anti’s blocking all adored routine),
I’m sometimes known to bum one, I’ll confess,
and wed ill-health to unattractiveness.

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Onion Scales

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Perhaps it wasn’t alcohol to blame.
It may be that addiction didn’t star
in her dramatic history. The same
“You’re not as funny as you think you are”
describes her now she doesn’t drink at all.
Our intervention didn’t do enough.
Convinced she was abusing alcohol,
we didn’t see the motivating stuff.

She’s quick to indignation, to declare
disdain for old white men, and to define
her boundaries, as if we all would care.
The party had to stop to read the sign –
she’s angry at her dad deep in her soul.
The vodka served a secondary role.

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Sateen

New Sheets

My 90 year-old mother said to me
(she’s really 93, but that’s too much
for meter), that she’d like her bed to be
equipped with linens softer to the touch.
“I have two sets of sheets. But I’m not keen
on one of them. I purchased them on sale.
They work, but maybe I’d prefer sateen
to wrinkle-free unduly hard percale.”

I started channeling my closest friend,
a shopping pro who advocates self-care.
“Your life’s too short to settle. Don’t contend
with lesser cloth. You’ve earned a perfect pair
of sheets. Your comfort’s worth it: never doubt.
Now give away the bad, or throw them out.”

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Keto Kitchen Kounter

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When I moved back, my discipline did not.
It wasn’t that I craved the bread, desserts,
or Triscuits. I can’t say that I forgot
how sugar’s toxic, carbohydrate hurts,
and all digestive systems need a break.
It’s more like I was busy and too stressed
to spend my time selecting well. I’d take
the package then, ignoring health’s behest.

I’ve always used myself as guinea pig.
I’m rational and cautious as a rule
(except for smoking most my life – my big
enduring flaw). Attending my own school
right now, eliminating meals pre-built,
I’m eating food instead of stupid guilt.

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The Dope Tray

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Two score and seven years ago, a tray
of Norse design as wedding gift we got.
We didn’t choose to entertain that way;
we used the dish to clean and hold our pot.

The giver was my brother’s college friend.
When we divorced we didn’t disagree
about its placement on the list we penned –
that tray spent all its future time with me.

Continuous in service, it’s remained
a feature of my leisure and my rest.
Ingrained with vintage resin now, grass-stained,
I take the tray for granted. I’m impressed
with useful beauty bearing time’s attack,
but yesterday I felt the tray’s first crack.

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Red Red Rose

Red Red Rose

I said I didn’t love the hybrid rose,
for unattractive foliage and fuss.
Its fragrance used to overwhelm my nose.
Its thorns are piercing to the limbs of us.
A gift of scissored roses seemed to me
akin to the decapitated bird
a cat delivers as a yard trophy,
but maybe my perception was absurd.

A tree that edged my garden fell last spring,
and now the sun beams where its bulk had stood.
Unshaded roses flourish and I bring
my shears out daily pruning. Sure I would
have voted for a native long ago,
but lately I like helping roses grow.

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Morning Strategy

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A score of years ago a friend told me,
responding to my marveling how fit
her husband was, four years past seventy
and twenty-eight our senior: “Oh, he lit
upon a method to maintain his powers.
The first thing every morning he heads out
to exercise and stretch, for three full hours.
He claims that’s what his vigor’s all about.”

“Impressive discipline,” was then my thought,
“astounding as the man’s virility.”
I little dreamed that I’d in time be brought
to mimic him, but flexibility
eludes me now – I shuffle when I rise,
until caffeine and lots of exercise.

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Ordinary Rudeness

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We often disagree, my closest friend
and I, about mundane experience.
Mature and metro, we should comprehend
alike discourtesy. Imperious
she waxes if her path should intersect
with rudeness from a stranger. There’s a role
that breached she calls a case of disrespect,
which I see as a loss of self-control.

She harkens when she argues back to youth –
behavior’s gauged by post-war memories –
but my perspective’s closer to the truth:
it’s filterless impulsiveness disease.
We’re poisoned, stressed by traffic, noise, and rays.
We should be glad we aren’t worse, these days.

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Recordings

Recordings

Of late I’ve started sampling old CDs
(I own a working player and a crate
of purchased music decades old). Some please
enough to keep and some are second-rate
about to go, but all induce in me
nostalgic habits corny as a joke:
there’s suddenly an urgent tendency
to stand and dance or find something to smoke.

And that’s okay, I say, but it’s a fact
that though I’m fit and not approaching death,
I’ll pay unless I move without impact,
and I’ll admit I’m often short of breath
(because of age because when young I chose
to overdo bad habits, I suppose).

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