So you feel bullied when I say a word,
and I feel bullied when you shop with me.
Except our definition is absurd
if we mean mean coercive tyranny.

Instead let’s recognize your feelings hurt
by “petulant,” “draconian,” and “cold.”
But that’s when you should look at you, alert
to learn what mastery may be controlled.

And I should see it’s only pressure laid
on me, to buy or else explain why not.
I’ll find a way aside or I’ll put paid
to what I want to purchase. We forgot
to think what “bully” means – too quick to be
a victim, we gave ego primacy.