Category Archives: Behavior Modification

Sweet Things

Eschewing added sugar years ago,occasions come when I partake a bit.For birthdays, and within December’s glow,confections are not inappropriate.This week my inventory’s exquisite.Although I’m rich I won’t rush it away –I used to binge but that’s a bane I quit;I’ll … Continue reading

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Finishing Work

Accustomed to a long-term discipline,achieving what was chosen as a goal,is yes, success, and certainly a win,but leaves me feeling like it punched a holein me, that now requires self-controlto thrive without, without discarding yield.I want to keep the treasure … Continue reading

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One Day, Six Weeks, A Year, Forever

Reducing carbs has certainly producedincrease in health, decrease in weight and girth.The pleasure so derived – esteem now loosed –is generating private bouts of mirth.But here’s the lesson learned, for what it’s worth –as true of GLP’s as “self-control” –the … Continue reading

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The Hour-A-Day Campaign

I’ve modified behavior once or twice,and learned some lessons doing so, for sure.When I eliminate a type of viceI have to do refusing daily. Curethat’s positive, adopting something nice,requires that I start it small, endure,and then let doing it supply … Continue reading

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Triggering

I used to justify addictive lapseby focusing on some convenient stress:obnoxious kids; a thankless job perhaps;an obstacle to peace or happiness.The fact is, if I wanted to indulgein too much food, or pot, or nicotine,excuses weren’t hiding. To divulgethe truth, … Continue reading

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Three Six One

Three days it always takes to carve a groovethat I can start to follow forwardly,to make initial paces to improvein movement, diet, and mentality.Six weeks to form a habit, experts say,and I’ve experienced that’s wisely neat:a new tradition’s born that … Continue reading

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Small Changes

I’m moving slower, but it’s not becauseI’m older or in pain or feel unwell.Avoiding careless injury and flawsin attitude – now grace begins to gelin me – a microchange in every cell.The dashing never won me any boon –it only … Continue reading

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Confidence (Again)

Of course I’ve tried to change behavior morethan once, and more than once I’ve likewise failed.What felt like stubbornness then made me sureto try again – I’m worth the work entailed.But I’ve seen others flunk and hit the floor –they … Continue reading

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Confidence

It may be confidence that powers meto venture on a course with diligence.It’s other than will power, certainly;it may be confidence. It doesn’t hurt to have experiencewith earlier campaigns, but presentlyI think success comes mostly from a sense that self … Continue reading

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Her Guilt

She needs her guilt. She has to feel that sinkof self-esteem that pushes her to wilt.Erect she’s off. No matter what you think,she needs her guilt. Pathology has brought her to a tiltwithout an avenue except to brinkof darkness where … Continue reading

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